Rhiannon3.net
Main Page | Bookstore | Msg Board | eZine| Chat | Cop/Survivor | Links, Help | Lodge | Chamber
The Rhiannon3 eZine is delivered Monthly to all members' eMail addresses. The eZine provides you articles of interest to women, men and families. The feature articles are placed here for online reading. Join now and receive a Free copy of the eBook, "Protect Yourself From Swindlers." The Rhiannon3 eZine archive is available at http://www.Rhiannon3.net/archive.html

Features from the Rhiannon3 eZine, January 15, 2003 edition:

Negative Thinking? Do You Do That And You Don't Even Know It?
By Jan Tincher

Do you have the problem of thinking negatively, instead of positively?

Worse, what if you really don't get it, don't think of negative thinking as a problem? Read on.

Is this you?

~~~~~~~~

You don't like it when people say *it* will be OK, and you KNOW *it* won't be? You think to yourself, *How can they stand there and say things like that? They don't know.*

Do you think, *Not thinking that way isn't being negative, it's being *realistic*.*

You don't like it when people say the old cliché, *Something good always comes out of something bad*? You KNOW it doesn't. How can they say things like that?

You don't like it when someone is smiling when something you consider *bad* is happening, and there you are, feeling rotten. What is wrong with these people? Don't they know things are terrible?

~~~~~~~~

What is the difference between them and you?

Well, actually the other people could have been feeling terrible, but they pulled themselves out of it with positive thinking, or looking ahead and knowing that this too shall pass.

Maybe they've read books on self-talk -- you know, the stuff that tells you to stop telling yourself everything is rotten and start looking at the good in things.

Maybe they realize -- and maybe you do, too, now -- that negative thinking NEVER got them anything good, and when they thought negatively, guess what -- NEGATIVE things happened!

Guess what else! They actually LEARNED from those experiences, and that's how they went from negative thinkers to positive thinkers. They wised up and saw that they didn't like what happens when they think negatively.

If you are a negative person, do you think you can change?

Do you think you can take control of your thoughts and start finding the good things in life? Do you think you can start seeing the good things, so that they can start happening more and more frequently to you? I think you can! Why? Because I KNOW that if you can think, you can change. You just have to decide to do that.

If you've decided, congratulations! I'll be happy to help in any way I can. Here are some articles that will Help.

Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/reality.htm
Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/let'sbechoosey.htm
Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/powerpicture.htm

As always, feel free to e-mail me at mailto:jan.tyb@tameyourbrain.com I'll be happy to e-mail you back. Jan

Thanks for reading.
Jan

~~~~~~~~~

Do you like this article? Let me know. Click here: Mailto:praise-or-nays.nlp@tameyourbrain.com

~~~~~~~~


Back to top

Please visit our sponsor's website: eInTown.com donates 10% of it's sales to Rhiannon3, Inc. and sponsors website costs for us.

www.eintown.com

Make Your Resolutions Stick!
by John Colanzi

Another year is winding down.

As the new year approaches it's time to make your resolutions for the New Year.

You start the New Year with "Great Expectations." You set your goals for the coming year and you promise that this year you'll stick to them.

As time goes by you hit a set back here and an unexpected problem there and your goals fly out the window.

Why do you suppose that is?

I can tell you why. You've been programmed to remember the negatives and forget the positives.

We lose our "Great Expectations" the first chance we get.

There's a story that illustrates this point.

There's a large group of individuals at a positive thinking rally. As the speaker is talking in walks a man with a ticket in his hand.

The speaker pauses and announces, "One of you has been chosen to receive $1,000,000.

What do you think flashes through their minds?

"I know it's not me, I never win anything."

A little later a man walks in with an executioners outfit on. The speaker announces this time, "I'm sorry, but one
of you is about to be executed."

This time everyone is thinking, "Oh God, I know it's me."

Wow! Do you think like that?

So how do you make sure you stay focused and positive when things aren't going as expected?

There's a concept they use in the "Silva Method" called "Reference Points." Most positive thinking groups have similar concepts.

To create a reference point you pick the most successful event you remember. Every day you concentrate on your "Reference Point."

Why?

To focus your mind on the positives in your life. Nature abhors a vacuum. Left on it's own, your mind will fill the void with the recent negative events.

As soon as you reach a goal, you set a newer more positive "Reference Point."

Tame your mind, set your goals and keep your resolutions.

Start using "Reference Points" and Make Your Resolutions Stick."

Wishing You Success,
John Colanzi
Street Smart Marketing
http://www.internet-profits4u.com

****************************************
Copyright (c) 2001 - 2002 John Colanzi.
John publishes the "Street Smart Marketing" newsletter.
Subscribe now and receive access to our Free Internet
Marketing Library: http://johncolanzi.com/freeware.html
John has a special free bonus marketing course for you.
"7 Days to Netting Big Money" mailto:jcolanzi@maketing.com

Back to top

----------------------------------------------

This webpage can be shared by forwarding the following web address. Simply copy and paste this line into an email program: http://www.Rhiannon3.net/0103.html

To subscribe, join the Rhiannon3 eZine list: Click here

Back to top | Main Page | BookStore | Message Board | eZine | Links, Help
Site Map | Webrings |Rhiannon3_'s Story | Cop/Survivor
Chatroom | Lodge | Chamber | How to Help or Make Donations

© 2001-2007, Rhiannon3, Inc, EyerStation,