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Features from the Rhiannon3 eZine, April 15, 2002 edition:

10 Brilliant Methods to Move from Blechhh
to Breakthrough in 5 Minutes or Less

By Julie Jordan Scott  © 2001

Ever have one of those days? Seems as if the cloudy murkiness holds over your head sort of like the cloud of dust is continually hovering around Pig Pen's feet in the Peanuts cartoons.

At last, a simple combination of tips will completely lift the Blechhhs quickly! Simply try on one or more of these methods the next time your life is taken over by a malaise of ickyness.

Let's Begin!

1. Talk it over. Make a five-minute phone call to a friend in order to sort out "what's up" in the situation. Sometimes all that is needed is a quick vent session. Set the intentional that the venting will completely erase the negative feelings. Speak. Let go.

2. Get a breath of fresh air. If you have been sitting at your desk indoors, go outside and move around. Take ten big breaths and stretch completely lifting your arms up over your head. For once, know that no one is paying any attention. (They are Thinking about themselves the majority of the time.) I am actually
writing this on my laptop sitting my porch. This way I get the benefit of the outdoors and I can keep a close watch over my little girl on her tricycle.)

3. Collect and prepare affirmations to use at times of distress. Keep these affirmations on notecards or in a special book so when you need them, they will be right there. You may choose to either write them out a few times. Maybe speaking them works more effectively for you. Perhaps a combination is best. Try various methods on to see what works best for you.

4. Whenever you get a nice note or commendation from an associate or a colleague, keep it in a file folder. I call mine my "atta girl" file. This is a great painkiller at times when blecch is overflowing. It reminds me (in the memorable words of Sally Fields so many years ago) "They like me! They really, really like me!"

5. Take a moment to review what you are thankful for in your life and work. Before you groan, simply try it the next time blechhs creep in. You can start a Gratitude or Thankfulness notebook where you actually keep a written record or you may want to just close your eyes and think of those special things (or simple things) you are thankful for. (As I was working on this article, I got up and worked in my gratitude garden. It quickly refocused me so I was able to complete my task at hand.)

6. Subscribe to one or more email quote services so you will have an ongoing list of inspiring quotes to read and reflect upon at a moments notice. I have found it works best to copy and paste the especially good ones into a separate file folder. I have my quotes separated by topic, as well, in case I run into a challenge in one specific area.

7. Write a thank you note or two. Quickly becoming a lost art, keep a pack of notecards in your desk. When the blechhs arrive, simply jot a quick, heart felt thank you to someone. It can be anyone who positively impacts your day. (The mail carrier, an author, a member of your house Of worship who greets you each Sunday, your son's scout leader.) By putting the thank you out into the universe, not only are you adding to the positive energy or yourself and the recipient, you are having a domino effect upon others as well. So simple AND so significant.

8. Do a 27 Fling Boogie. I learned this technique from the Flylady who is an online organizational-time-management-hero for "Stay Home Executives." If you feel the symptoms of blecch beginning to surface, grab a trash bag and get busy. Collect 27 items as quickly as you can, throw them in the trash bag, close
the trash bag and take it outside immediately. This is VERY energizing. And somehow I never am unable to find 27 assorted items...you may surprise yourself!

9. Do a "Gifts Shift". This came in handy when I used to work in local government. As the blechhs came upon me, I would shift my task from something outside of my giftedness to something inside my giftedness. For me that meant writing something (I wrote some of the most readable memos in the
Department!) or working with my clients in the field. It always worked so that returning to doing my original task was much, much easier.

10. Finally, give something away. This may be something as simple as giving a heartfelt compliment. It may mean starting or expanding on a hobby specifically as a method for combating the blechhs (one idea is to sponge paint small terra cotta pots and put a plant in them. One bigger plant can be the source
for many little plants.)

Use this list as a starting point. Print it out and add your ideas as they come to mind. Finally, you will be prepared to create positively the next time you don't feel so great.

Your breakthroughs WILL come. Guaranteed.

Resources to support applying these tips include:

Gratitude Gardens: http://www.5passions.com/ggp.html

Quote email lists to join:

Top Achievement's Quote of the Day
To subscribe via email:
achievementquote-subscribe@topica.com
Or via the website at:
http://www.topachievement.com

Powerquotes - Creating Daily Insights and Inspiration

To subscribe go to http://powerquotes.net or
powerquotes-subscribe@topica.com.

Flylady on the Internet
http://www.FlyLady.net

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Julie Jordan Scott is a Personal Success Coach who left her career as a government bureaucrat and built a successful business in less than six months. She now combines mothering 4 children with inspiring people worldwide with her books, ezine, teaching and personal coaching.
Visit http://www.5passions.com for free resources for YOUR success
Contact Julie now to bring YOUR vision to life today.
ph: 661.325.4116 or email julie@5passions.com

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Do You Have A Hard Time Trusting People?
by Jan Tincher
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Do you want to trust them? Do you know how to trust them? How can you trust that you know how to trust them?

Really, it's very simple. It is like a *recipe*, so pay close attention.

You've trusted someone before, and it was wrong, correct? Remember that specific time. Can you remember how it felt?

Lots of times it has a specific feeling in our gut. Can you remember what was going on when you decided to trust that person? The minute they said they would do whatever you were trusting them to do, but they didn't, what was the sequence here?

By sequence, I mean did you see a picture in your mind, then say something to yourself like "I know he's not going to do it." Then, did you get the feeling in your gut?

Or maybe you heard your thoughts first, then felt that feeling, then saw a picture in your mind.

Or maybe you felt that feeling, then saw a picture in your mind, then heard your thoughts.

Let's look at it again. Someone says they'll do something for you. Does your brain go, "Oh-oh." Does your picture in your mind flash? Does your stomach clench? Or was it entirely different?

Remember, to find the sequence figure out which happens first, then second, then third. You will find that whenever you shouldn't have trusted someone, your body follows the same procedure each time. It follows the same *recipe.* At any rate, you now know the
sequence.

Here's a way to double check:

Think of a time when you totally trusted someone and it was good. What *recipe* did you follow? Did you get a good feeling in your gut, a nice picture in your mind, did you think good thoughts? Now, think of a different time you totally trusted. Did the same procedure
happen? Probably.

*** Now, do you know why some people say *I knew it in my gut.*

Pay attention to the different things that *always* happen to you.

Now, you know how to use it to your advantage. If you start getting the same responses that you always get when you shouldn't trust someone, then stop right there. Don't let it go any farther. Listen to yourself, to your body, not to the words that person is saying or
the rationalization that's going on in your mind. Listen to what your whole body and mind are saying.

Remember, we all have *recipes* we can follow -- once we know them. If you find the *recipe* you are following isn't good, stop. There are just some people in life that aren't trustworthy, and we always seem to wish we'd have known ahead of time. Well, now
we can. Good luck.

Copyright 2001, Jan Tincher, All Rights Reserved Worldwide

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